I am starting this blog without a title. I am trying so hard to stay anonymous on here. I want to post all of her information and all I know about her. But, in the end it will expose me just as much as her. She is crossing a line and I want to ruin her back, like she has ruined my life. But, it sucks, because I am a good person. And I want good things for people, no matter who they are or what they have done in life. I want to rip her face from her skull. That’s the feeling deep down that I don’t really let surface.
One of my followers posted on her blog. It sucks. But the follower of me said what I want to say to her, too. But mine would be a lot worse.
I started this blog as a way to get my feelings out and try to let some things go and it has helped. But, I search the tag “affair” and find blogs of people who are currently in an affair or who are considering an affair. I want to comment to them and tell them that what they are doing is the worst thing that they can do to a person who loves them as much as their spouse or other does.
Our therapist, as well as my pastor at my church, recently detailed how a marriage is a covenant and not a contract. You should treat your spouse the same as you treat your kids. You are in a covenant with your kids. If they don’t act right, you are not going to go and get another kid and play catch or go to the zoo with that kid. You should feel the same way about your spouse and treat them accordingly.
Let that resonate for those of you who are currently considering or already in an affair.